The Feelings You're Not Aware of

Angel and boy figurines found outside a cabin in
Nakusp British Columbia Canada, 2017.  

"With the tremendous variety of outlooks, beliefs, attitudes and different ways of dealing with one's reality I find it incomprehensible that one reality fits all."

It is my position that people go through their daily lives using various levels of awareness, and that there is a tendency to intuitively believe that your particular brand of reality for the most part matches others. I think this is an incomplete picture. Allow me to explain:

With the tremendous variety of outlooks, beliefs, attitudes and different ways of dealing with one's reality I find it incomprehensible that one "reality" fits all. Indeed one's own personal perception of their reality does not have to match at all any other persons. There may be some very general parameters but I think they are quite flexible. To be clear I'm not talking about any sort of health condition, these are just you physically fit and healthy individuals you meet as you go throughout your day. The "average Joe" if you will.

Now, adding to the mix, unconscious feelings and other motivators you are not aware of. These may be struggling motivators in the back of your mind. Not strong feelings, but those fleeting supple reactions. Social they may be, but their cumulative effect should not be discounted or ignored. The message I have for you today in the short little article is to be aware that these emotional transients exist and you may discover a fair bit about yourself by paying attention to them.

For each person, these brief background feelings may be incredibly mild or momentarily very intense. But because they are so short in duration we move on with our daily activities without even noticing them consciously. They can colour our conversation, bring up an old feeling, make you feel good or bad about a particular situation… Ever wondered why your mood abruptly shifted while you were going about your day? This may be where the answer lies. If you can open up a dialogue with yourself, you never know what you will find.

Well, look at that., another incredibly short but concise article. I know the Internet prefers thousand word essays, but I think for today this will do. It is the weekend here in Surrey British Columbia and we are getting ready for the Canadian Thanksgiving. Wherever you are, and whenever you read this, I hope you are having a great day and feel free to post a comment.

Take care Patrick