Motivated people, and non-motivated people, why do these two groups exist?
Maybe a better way to phrase this question is: "Why are some people curious, and seek out answers themselves while others do not?"
Many times in the volunteer work I do it is mostly a process of problem-solving, and it is definitely something I like to do. What boggles my mind however is why some people do not. They seemingly hit a problem and it stops them in their tracks; they do not ask or explore how to fix it. Talk about a way to limit one's life because you end up being surrounded by perceived problems. An example:
The other day a friend of mine received a brand-new electric chair. Of course there was much jubilation because they could now zip around on their own. A few days later I heard through the local grapevine that things weren't going so well for this person, they had crashed into the walls of their suite, while learning how to control the sensitive joystick. When I heard this, I went to them and said, "All modern electric wheelchairs have an indoor and outdoor modes, and it sounds like yours is set on outdoor." A look online quickly determined that yes this was the case, the chair did have multiple modes and it was set on "outdoor" making it too fast. But from the manual the joystick assembly didn't quite match so I told them to phone the store they bought from to find out exactly how to set it into indoor mode.
The problem was thereby solved and my friend is now happily and safely travelling around. I got the distinct feeling however that if I had not suggested they phone the store or initially investigated further, they would've put up with their chair being in warp drive permanently and probably ultimately would've been injured at some point. Why didn't they have the initiative to simply ask the right questions or even the wrong ones?
This is something that completely confuses me because my friend and others in my building are intelligent. Yet I see this kind of behaviour from a wide variety people now days happening over and over. They usually don't take the incredibly obvious next step, rather they just accept the status quo and everything stops there. This is a quandary I have a no answers for yet. It is just an observation. If anyone reading this as an idea about why this situation exists please do let us know in the comments.
